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Friday, August 26, 2011

Dowry (Jahaiz) Tradition in Pakistan


The marriage is the lovely and joyful event for every family, which get together two persons. In every religion there are some customs and traditions for wedding. Like that in Islam there are also some customs and traditions, dowry is one among them which is commonly known as Jahaiz.


Islam mai Jahaiz ki Haseyat

Now-a-day, the marriage is become a type of business in which the groom's parents are getting the advantage from bride's parents. The real concept of dowry has been lost in dark and it becomes a source of earning. The dowry has become a big problem for the middle class families, because usually people ask for each and every thing in dowry from bride's parents. And for its minimum cost is about 5 to 6 million at least.


Jahaiz ki Majooda sorat 1 Lanat

If the girl belongs to a middle class family and her parents are not able to provide dowry then the boy don’t do agree to marry her. In such type of case when the boy is an engineer or a doctor then the cost of boy’s demanded dowry commonly ranges from 20 to 30 million.  Thus, the dowry becomes a big difficulty for the poor and middle class girls and their families.



The marriage which was the sweet relation b/w two persons is become a business of two families. The boy’s parents are not feeling any guilty or hesitation to demand huge dowry even after knowing that the parents of the girl are not in the situation to fulfill their demand.

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Girls Responsibilities when they are out of their Home for Education


There are a lot of colleges and universities in Pakistan that are providing their best services for girl’s education like diplomas, bachelors and masters in a number of fields. In Pakistan parents also want to provide best education to their daughters and want to see their daughters with the degree of doctorate , engineering etc.




LUMS



NED University Karachi




Virtual University




University of Central Punjab Lahore




FAST University Lahore




FAST University Karachi


For this purpose mostly parents sent their daughters to another city’s university and college. Because well reputed universities are only in big cities like Lahore, Karachi, Islamabad etc etc. So it is the responsibility of girls that when they are leaving their home to go for studies then only do study and never take negative advantage of this freedom. Because today in Pakistan about 80% of girls are taking negative advantage of this freedom and doing friendship with boys and going outside for dates without permission and telling to their parents and attend so called fashion shows and dramatic societies and act in those shows wearing dresses which are not the part of our society or religion. This act and behavior of the girls is absolutely wrong.




Dramatic society in a University




University Fashion Show



It is a duty of the administrations of colleges or universities that they should take steps for these matters and never allows the girls to go outside the hostel for any kind of purpose. They should also don’t allow the girls to talk on phone at night, order them to leave their phones in the custody of hostel in-charge and give them their phones when any call comes from their home or from any family member. The girls must have to keep in mind that their responsibility is to do study to become able to play their role in the development of the country. And they can play a vital role in the prosperity and progress of Pakistan.




Sunday, August 21, 2011

Status of women in Pakistan v/s Status of women in Islam


Pakistan is a Muslim country that’s why it is necessary for this state that they follow the rules of Islam. But now in Pakistan the position is totally opposite. The girl after its birth is in under pressure of the tribal, feudal and some other facts which are not allowed in Islam. The parents are not allowing their daughters for higher educations.

There are a lot of wrong views about second marriage in the mind of Pakistanis, so it is also a serious problem for women. If the husband of any woman dies or her husband gives her divorce and she wants to do a second marriage then her relatives and community don't like this and they don't allow her second marriage. They understand that second marriage is allowed in Islam but they think this is a bad and less character doing.

Practice of early marriages and forced marriages is also a problem for girls in Pakistan. Islam allows girls to choose their partner to marry with, but in Pakistan mostly the marriages held on the force of family and the reason behind this is only money or property. The problems for women not finish after their marriage but the problems become double after marriage because their in law family members notice their every action.




Forced Marriages In Pakistan



Forced Marriages are prohibited in ISLAM

In a nut shell, the women of Pakistan are facing almost all type of difficulties except abuse and body violence from their husbands and family members. Other type of violence contain rape, domestic abuse as spousal murder, burning and disfiguring faces by acid, beatings, ritual honor-killings, and custodial abuse and mental torture are also problems in Pakistan which are strictly prohibited in Islam.

Saturday, August 20, 2011

Shopping For Eid






Eid Moon Sighted



The Eid is the biggest event of the Muslims and it has a great importance in Islam. There are two Eids in Islam, one is known as Eid-ul-fitr and other is known as Eil-ul-adha. The Eid-ul-fitr is the eid in which people do a lot of shopping especially girls and we can say that the Eid-ul-fitr is the festival of shopping and the festival which is much-awaited than others.




Shalwar Kameez for Eid


In Eid, everybody is happy and excited and does their preparations but the girls are highly excited and their happiness is out of control. The girls not only buy new clothes but they do a lot of preparations for Eid. They buy jewellery, shoes, handbags, bangles etc. Their each and everything is perfectly matched to their clothes which they got after a searching of a longer period.

The most famous interest of the girls is Mehndi. For this purpose they went to beauty parlors, pick out a latest mehndi design and then they put mehndi on their hands and foots. There is also a very tough competition on mehndi design and embroidery among girls. They especially wear shalwar kameez or kurta trouser on the event of Eid.

The event of Eid is full of celebrations and festivities. The girls attracted towards shopping much as compare to the boys. That’s why special range of dresses, sandals, jewellery is present in the shopping malls for girls. The girls also make a lot of programs with their friends and relatives for outing or party at home and made number of dishes with their own hands for their programs.




Shopping for Eid




Mall is full with people





Girl looking for bangles




Lady purchasing Cosmetics




Young girls enjoying Eid Milan Party





Traditional Shalwar Kameez




Mehndi Design




Young girls looking for Jewelry  

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Girls Education in Pakistan


In Pakistan girls faces a lot of difficulties in their life as compare to boys. Mostly they face the problems in their education. Here the girls cannot complete their education career because of the practice of early marriages which is a wide-crippling issue in Pakistan.

Another thing which is cause of obstacle in girl education is the community, which passes number of bad comments on a girl who do job or get education from any institution. Another problem is lack of transportation facilities, which are insecure and awkward and then they leave their education process. These are the top most problems for a girl in Pakistan which cannot allow a girl to get educated.



Second problem which faced by girls is that their family members and parents do not support them in their studies and thus girls becomes alone and helpless and they have to leave their study. Mostly the parents are illiterate or they have no idea about the importance of girl’s education that’s why they hesitate to allow the girls to get proper education.

Some parents have opinion that girls should only learn how to take care for home and other household activities. They fail to realize that girls can learn household activities better if they got proper education.





University Girls


University Girl Crossing Road.




College girls waiting for transport


The girl’s education is not only important for girls but it is also good for the society. As they can become a doctor or a lawyer and can be helpful for many women in these fields. In a nut shell, education is very necessary for a girl and for the future of the country.








Monday, August 15, 2011

Mehndi Designs for Eid and Wedding

In Pakistan Eid is coming and many of us wanted to know how Pakistani girls celebrate Eid. Let me tell you something about it. I think Mahndi is the most popular thing which Pakistani girls apply mostly. It’s a common practice of Pakistani Girls that they apply different Mehndi designs or tattoos. Mehndi Designs or tattoos for Eid are important for women. However, it is not only for Eid, there are many other occasions where girls and woman use mehndi designs or tattoos.




Eid Mehndi Design

Eid Mehndi Design


Muslim women and girls plan for the Eid celebration many days before Eid. Women prepare their Eid dresses
and schedule the Eid mehndi designs.

Eid Mehndi Design

Bridal Mehndi Design

Bridal Mehndi Design


Eid is important to Muslims; they want to look good during Eid. However, mehndi designs and tattoos are not limited to Eid. Weddings, Engagements, after having a baby and family get-togethers are also reasons for women to apply different mehndi designs and tattoos. Any important event in Muslim is a reason for women to wear mehndi designs or tattoos.




Sunday, August 14, 2011

Fashionable Clothes for Girls


It is a fact that no girl wants to be left behind when it comes to dressing according to the most recent trends. With the many varieties in the market, it is clearly quite difficult to choose when one visits the girls clothing stores. However, technology has made it easier, and you can select the best and affordable dresses just by the click of a button.
Looking at the fashion trends, girls wear section has really transformed over the years, shifting drastically from the olden conservative approach. Nowadays, girls are much more experimental with their clothing, as it can be evidenced by the emergence of attires such as the leggings for girls. Designs of girls’ clothes have so much changed such that you can come across girls wearing denim skirts, short skirts, mini skirts, and sleeveless tops and so on.






To accessorize the clothing, girls have a number of options in silver jewelry, earrings, bangles, bracelets etc. The great transformation in girls wear has been across all age groups, so little girl dresses are also available in all varieties. As surprising as it may sound, girls become aware of the fashion trends and a very tender age, hence the shift in design of clothes for young girls.
If you are to purchase the clothes for your daughter, remember that there are clothes for various body types. One of the universal rules is to go for vertical stripes if the cloth is for a plump body or horizontal stripes for a slim person.





Fashion trends for girls clothes go with the seasons, with summer being associated with bright colors such as white, blue, orange and pink. One should pick the clothes that maintain the trendy look, but don’t compromise on comfort.  For instance, during summer, it is prudent to wear loose clothes because tight ones are likely to cause skin irritation. During summer, of most preference among girls is a combination of skirts or shorts with simple slippers.
Because of difference in body shapes, girls may grapple with the notion that they might not get a particular fashionable dress. On the contrary, designs are available for all body sizes and you can get a variety of plus size fashionable dresses from most girls clothing stores. Further, the availability of the online shopping portals option offers the best way of picking the most appropriate clothing at an affordable price. Whatever the age of the girl, or the fashion preferences, there is always the perfect clothing to fit any occasion.